Friday, 15 July 2011

Process oriented psychology and the analysis of a meeting

"Very real mental and emotional events are sparked whenever we interact with each other -and most of these dynamics lie below the radar of consciousness."(Lewis)
Benefits of deep democracy work:

"People used new tools to establish safe spaces, where they began to address the hurt, rage, guilt, and shame impacting on their everyday working lives.

To their own amazement (and our delight), laypeople with no background in psychology became adept at using diagnostic tools to determine when unexpressed emotional issues were disrupting decision making. And they learned how to resolve those issues themselves, without having to call on outside help.

As Deep Democracy became gradually more intrinsic to the workplace culture, the director's multiracial teams began to function better. But remarkable as that was in itself, most participants reported that a major benefit of their five-day training was self awareness. For Greg and me It was tremendously satisfying to see people owning their power and realising their inherent potential." (Lewis,M, p15)
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Questions for those who were at the EGM:

1) How satisfied were you with the outcome?

2) What was the outcome, as you see it?

3) What role did you play in the meeting?

4) What skills did you use and frameworks for conflict work did you have in mind during the meeting?

5) What would you like to have happened differently (e.g. support needs)?

6) If there was to be another EGM what would you like to happen?

7)a)How would you be with a structure involving three circles:
i) The main proposer of the motion sitting facing the main opposer of the motion
ii) A circle of Trustees
iii) An outer circle from the membership?

7b) with this structure how would you like these circles to interact?

8) What views do you have on what happens to conflict when a motion is lost by a proposer?
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Who is behind this blog?

- google the phrase "We need to act if we want justice"(as per this photo) and you'll find this:
http://www.hastingsobserver.co.uk/news/observer-comment/letters/we_need_to_act_if_we_want_justice_1_2756987

Mediation Support Ltd exists to “innovate in getting stuck communications unstuck & to model taking responsibility in communities"

I see us using a lot of energy pushing our conflicts around, usually trying to get rid of them, rather than actually processing them.

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Some recent tweets from http://twitter.com/paulcrosland

  • I want every1 in a conflict 2 get support. Unfortunately the depth of support people usually get is just about agreeing with their position. 1 day ago
  • #Restorative #Justice #result -a good day: the future of #restorativejustice is here: http://t.co/XkGgugJ #hastingsjustice #nvc 2 days ago
  • I liked a @YouTube video http://youtu.be/7RzrjEPiejo?a#RestorativeJustice -Mediation Support SafeSpace Presentation f2 days ago
  • NB I've reached the conclusion today that most of our lives we spend playing 3games. Each of game involves a how question to ourself. Guess? 2 days ago
  • I'm not the one being victimised, but I have a strong-sense of being "offenderised" (my coinage: goes along with scapegoating etc;creates..) 2 days ago
  • Being elected again as a trustee is not important. What matters is that the conflict that I hold (on behalf of myself &others) is processed. 2 days ago
  • Wherever I go, I take my conflicts. 2 days ago
  • What does Mediation Support do?: "We innovate in getting stuck communications unstuck & model taking responsibility in our chosen communities". 

Wednesday, 13 July 2011

The Princess Royal speaks of the importance of keeping justice in the community

Princess Anne ended her speech with: "If you want to argue about what I said, that's probably not a bad thing." So, what does "keeping justice in the community" ideally look like in our own backyard?

HRH Princess Anne just asked me about the campaign

-her words to me were: "Deeper Democracy & More Restorative Justice -do you think they go together?"

Of course I said yes to her royal highness.

The shirts at a conference today